The Refugee Crisis is Making ME Hate America!

How much more disgusted is it possible to be with one’s countrymen? Every time I think I’ve reached maximum disgust between the Tea Party and all their nonsense, in-your-face gun activists who can’t go out to dinner without packing major heat, and Donald Trump being treated as if he’s actually a viable presidential candidate–I get schooled on how cowardly and terrible Americans can be.

I know plenty of Christians online and in RL–of all stripes. I know Mormons who think it’s their duty to keep having more children as long as they can, even though they aren’t able to support them financially. I know Baptists who were taught, and still struggle with, slut-shaming being the duty of any good parent. I know Catholics who honestly believe that using birth control is a one-way ticket to damnation. I don’t agree with these things. Frankly, I doubt the veracity of those who claim to honestly adopt these beliefs as part of their worship of a purportedly benevolent god.

But here’s the thing: I’ve been hearing for years now about how we have to do everything the bible says, lest we be immoral. Of course the people who say this don’t really mean it–because they wear glasses to church, eat shrimp, don poly-cotton blends, get haircuts, etc, etc, etc. They also don’t own slaves or force rape victims to marry their attackers. But hey, we have to follow at least the spirit of the bible, right? For morality? That’s why we’re supposed to applaud people like Cliven whatever the fuck who trespassed to graze his cattle, or Kim Davis who “took a stand” against those awful gays with all that gayness. It’s because of the bible that we have to refuse to make pizzas for gay weddings or rip our kids out of scouts because the leader is gay. It’s why Planned Parenthood is getting ridden out of town on a rail despite a profound and immediate need for it. Because Jesus, because bible.

But now…that war orphans, widows, displaced families are desperately seeking asylum–what do we do? “Sorry, all full. Sorry (not sorry) but none of you can come here.” Shit, this cowardly bullshit is even coming from the very people who wouldn’t even fucking be here if it wasn’t for the US taking in refugees. I’m looking at YOU, Ted Cruz, you shrewish sack of crap. And the Anne Frank thing? It’s actually true. She might still be alive now if we hadn’t wanted to “stay out of it.”

If you have honestly informed yourself about the Paris attacks and the overall refugee situation caused by Daesh (which was, in fact, largely caused by the good ol’ US of A), and your takeaway is that they’re all Muslims which means all terrorists which means GTFO? You are a monster. You aren’t living by traditional Christian morality, and you sure as fuck don’t believe that #AllLivesMatter despite your insistence to the contrary. As many others have said better than I: By refusing refugees, we are giving in to terrorists. We’re giving them exactly what they want.

The “that’s too bad, but this isn’t my problem” school of foreign policy has been our ugliest export for some time. We fuck with any country that has something we want, claiming it’s about ‘necessary regime change’ or ‘exporting democracy.’ But we do fuckall in countries where abominations happen all the goddamn time. Why aren’t we helping oppressed Chinese workers? Or any of the other non-Paris places that have been bombed by terrorists in the last few weeks? Because we don’t actually care about the people in these places. As a nation, we only care about what we can get from them.

The United States of America has the biggest, baddest, most well-funded armed forces in the world. Yet we’re cowering in fear at people running for their lives from the very people we profess to hate? Are we really that lily-livered? Where are all the gun-enthusiasts who need fucking rocket launchers and semi-auto machine guns to “protect their families?” Why aren’t they standing by the borders, ushering refugees in and offering to dispatch anyone who tries any terrorist shit?
No, I don’t think we are entirely cowardly. But I do think we’re that hateful. I think we, as a people, are absolutely callous enough to hear about refugees and think “Well who the hell told them to live in [insert godforsaken hellhole here] in the first place?” You know, the same way people say “Hey, if you didn’t want to be treated like shit for 50 hours a week and still not be able to afford a doctor, why’d you choose to work at [minimum wage shithole]?”

The response to this refugee crisis is another embarrassingly ugly case of demonizing victims because it’s easier to hate than to help. It’s simpler to say “Hey, they brought this on themselves,” than to say “Holy shit, that’s awful–what can I do to help.” It may be true that taking in displaced people or donating $50 won’t “solve” the problem of terrorism. There will always be disgruntled assholes who think hurting people is fun and use that excuse to advance some bugfuck ideology. But what there should never be, are people who see these atrocities and say “I’d like to help, but helping might make something go badly for me, so I don’t think I’ll even try.”

I’ve seen the way some of you react when your basement floods. Now imagine that your house was blown up, half your family dead, your son stolen and forced to fight for terror, and you’re literally running for your life. Now imagine a bunch of comfy AF Americans sitting amid central heating, watching Netflix and eating food they can drive to the store and get without anyone shooting at them–got it? Imagine them saying that you can’t stay in an empty hotel and get a cold shower and decent sleep, because they’re afraid you might be the people you’re actually fleeing from.
Then tell me you wouldn’t fucking hate the people who did that to you.

So if you’re saying that, if you’re saying anything like that–stop it.
Just fucking stop.

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